Keep a Positive Attitude

Women are more prone to compare themselves with other women. It is a none fact that we tend to compete with each other on a personal level, whereas men tend to compete with other men on a task level.

So what do you see when you look in the mirror?

Do you see a redesigner who is professional looking?
Do you see a redesigner who smiles?
Do you see a redesigner who is caring and loving?
Do you see a redesigner whose hair, makeup and clothing is suitable for her body style?

While you may be unhappy with some aspects of your personal appearance, never forget that you are your own worst enemy. No one but you (or perhaps a spouse) will see you stepping out of the shower or bath.

So no one else will be judging you in the raw. Only you.

So lighten up. Give yourself a break. Work on the aspects that need work and don't worry about the ones you can't do anything about.